Good Manners
Introduction
Good manners are an important part of our civilization. We know a man by his manners. Manners are important for our conduct in society.
Therefore, we place a lot of emphasis on learning manners. Parents want to teach manners to their children. Teachers want to teach manners to their students.
Guru wants to teach manners to his disciples. Because manners are very important to us.
Utility
Etiquette is very helpful. Manners make us gentlemen. We are called gentlemen only when we behave well. Good manners make friends for us. because people like to be friends
With people of good manners. Good manners can make our enemies our friends. But bad behavior will definitely make our friends our enemies. That’s why we have to be very particular about our manners.
Basic Principles of Good Manners
There are some fundamental principles on which all our manners should be based. They are like this. We should not hurt the mind of others. We should not hurt the feelings of others.
We should avoid arrogance, pride, emotion, anger and harshness of voice when we deal with others. We should always be direct and sweet. We must listen patiently to others. We should speak less about ourselves. Our attitude should be sympathetic.
We must learn to appreciate. other. We should observe forms of behavior such as ‘please’, ‘kindly’, ‘thank you’, ‘sorry’, ‘no, thank you’, etc., when they are due. We should respect our elders and superiors. We should be loving and kind to our youth.
We must be honest in our approach. We should not make false promises. We should never cheat. We should be clean. These are some of the basic principles on which all our manners and behavior should rest.
Etiquette at Home
We must obey our parents and elders: we must take care of the elderly and the weak. We should be loving and kind to our youth.
etiquette in school
In school we should behave kindly towards our fellow students. We should help the weak in their studies. We should respect our teachers. We should wish our teachers all the best in the first meeting in a day. We should do good work in the subject of our study.
Because not being honest about any subject is disrespect to the subject-teacher. We should not criticize our teachers. We should maintain proper discipline in the school.
etiquette at a general meeting
We should behave properly when we are in a meeting. We must obey the chairman of the meeting. We should not disturb or interrupt when someone is speaking. we shouldn’t talk inside
when we are in a meeting.
Interview Etiquette
Sometimes we have to appear in an interview to get the job. There we have to be very particular about our ways. We should not go in front of them until we are called. We should sit on the waiting bench till they call us.
We should not ask them to call us. We will allow them to call us at their convenience. When we are on the waiting bench, we must maintain proper discipline and silence. We will go before them as soon as we are called.
There we will wish them. We will not sit until we are asked to sit. We should always pay attention to what they ask and say. We should not look around like monkeys.
We will answer them in a gentle voice. We will answer as much as they want. We should not move our legs, arms and heads. We should not lay our hands on their tables. We should not stand so close to them. We must be very clean.
Conclusion
Good manners are very important for us. Therefore, students should try to follow good manners everywhere. Teachers should guide them in this regard.